For many, marriage is the holy grail of relationships. The potential for intimacy and fulfillment is incredible. Marriage often starts out with so much joy, so much hope. But then....
Communication breakdowns, money, our pasts, sexual issues, disappointments, unmet expectations, parenting issues, our families; they all seem to either hit like a tsunami or sneak in like a tide over time - often leaving couples scared, angry, hopeless and ready to run.
It doesn’t need to be this way, but who can afford the cost and time of long term counseling for issues that seem to be overwhelming and insurmountable?
What if there was a low cost alternative; a loving and objective third party that wants to act in both of your best interests; an advocate and guide with wisdom to get you through virtually everything you face as a couple? And He is available right now and right where you’re at.
With just a few basic truths as guidelines and a little practice, the Paraclete Guidance System comes along side to open up doors of communication to bring insight into root issues that can be worked through one step at a time - with your spouse, friend, or counselor.
We rarely fight about root issues. It’s usually these superficial “triggers” that distracts us from resolving core issues. And worse, those superficial issues seem to grow like maggots in the darkness. Paraclete gets past these triggers and heads straight toward root causes. Once the roots are exposed, partners often respond with compassion rather than wrath. Judgment, self protection, and unforgiveness are often broken when we see the true identity of one another. Understanding becomes the key to resolution; hope replaces despair; discord disappears into harmony.
Communication breakdowns, money, our pasts, sexual issues, disappointments, unmet expectations, parenting issues, our families; they all seem to either hit like a tsunami or sneak in like a tide over time - often leaving couples scared, angry, hopeless and ready to run.
It doesn’t need to be this way, but who can afford the cost and time of long term counseling for issues that seem to be overwhelming and insurmountable?
What if there was a low cost alternative; a loving and objective third party that wants to act in both of your best interests; an advocate and guide with wisdom to get you through virtually everything you face as a couple? And He is available right now and right where you’re at.
With just a few basic truths as guidelines and a little practice, the Paraclete Guidance System comes along side to open up doors of communication to bring insight into root issues that can be worked through one step at a time - with your spouse, friend, or counselor.
We rarely fight about root issues. It’s usually these superficial “triggers” that distracts us from resolving core issues. And worse, those superficial issues seem to grow like maggots in the darkness. Paraclete gets past these triggers and heads straight toward root causes. Once the roots are exposed, partners often respond with compassion rather than wrath. Judgment, self protection, and unforgiveness are often broken when we see the true identity of one another. Understanding becomes the key to resolution; hope replaces despair; discord disappears into harmony.